Is this Normal?

Hi Dolls,

Quick question. How do you gracefully bring up your allowance amount when communicating with a pot? On AM, many guys think they can bring down my price, or try to educate me on what a Sugar Baby is.


The few times I posted on CL, many guys wanted to meet first PRIOR to discussing price. I honestly, don't want to waste my time on someone who feel that anything less than 3k is a suitable amount.

Like this mother fucker for instance.

Kisses,

Lilo

Happily Ever After

Hi Dolls!

Sorry, I've been super busy meeting and dismissing many, many pots.

Mr. CEO was a bust. When I met him, he FAILED to mention that he's looking for a mistress, NOT a Sugar Baby. He also emailed me and told me he was a bit put off by my interest in the financial aspect. He told me that he was capable of meeting my needs, but I had to understand that I had to WORK for the money.

WTF. I'm not your housekeeper, or gardener. This is a MUTUALLY Beneficial relationship; you have to EARN MY time just as much as I have to earn yours. He really didn't seem to like that, so I cut all ties with him. FUNNY story, I met a few SB's on Craigslist and Manders (one of the gals) stated that he tried to contact her as well! I told her all the things he wanted and promised blah blah blah. She deleted him so fast.

I've had another pot tell me that it's "a buyers market" and my allowance requirement was too high. I told him that I'm not a BMW dealership, price is non negotiable.

I HAVE had luck though. I met with a Finance Executive who I'll call Mr. Young. He's nice, we have chemistry and he makes me laugh. We had dinner a few nights ago at my favorite restaurant down town. We already had a meet and greet so I already knew him pretty superficially. At dinner he said he really like me and wanted to lock in an arrangement. He said he can $3,400 per month as well as extra for gifts. He just recently bought a plane and wants to take me flying. Eeeek. I woke up on Friday, and saw my allowance in my account! Next week, he wants to have an over nighter and take me shopping.

So excited.

I also have been meeting with another pot who I'll call Mr. Law Firm. He's a partner at a large law firm and his marriage has been rocky. He's very nice, makes me laugh and really wants me to like him. I met him down town for wine and light lunch. He paid for my valet, gave me a kiss good bye and stated that I'm special compared to the other Bimbo's that he has met and wants to meet with me next week. I explained as a student I'm always in need of a new laptop. Mr. Law Firm wants to meet for lunch week and take me to Apple to buy a computer! I am so excited. He said he'll be talking with his finance guy about what his options are. My allowance amount is ok, but for the sake of marriage he needs to know if a pre paid card will be better or a wire transfer. I'm so excited! So far my monthly allowance will be around $7k. I've already got $3,400 in the bank.

I'm really hoping for a third SD to make it around $10k a month. Think I can do it?

Did I mention I have a boyfriend? A part time nanny job? And school?
I study History, Law and have a minor in Business.

If only my day had more hours.

Kiss,

Lilo

Date Tomorrow

Hi Dolls,

I've been busy with school and work.

Mr CEO is taking me to lunch tomorrow, on my request: Sushi.

I requested lunch since it's low key, which is what I'm looking for since it's my first time.

Update tomorrow ladies!

Kisses,

Lilo

Cheap, Cheap Cheap

Hi Dolls,

Before I hit the road I wanted to comment on something. Is the Bay Area the only place thats filled with cheap asses?

First off, you all were right. SD4Me is a lame site that has men with an income of on average 100k to 200k. That is not a SD. How is he going to pay for the needs of a SB? One guy flat out told me that no one pays more than 1k on a SB. I said I told you my amount take it or leave. He called me a whore and blocked me. Whatever, he can go use his cheap cash on someone else.

I've had luck on AshleyMadison. I've been contacted by three men who seem very nice. I'm meeting with one next week who is a bit older than I like but agreed to my amount. He wasn't creepy online and even said he's very vanilla sex wise. So he seems like an easy Daddy. Ill call him Mr. Executive.

I also have an account on SD and some guy who is in the entertainment industry want to meet me. He collects vintage BMW's, but he's in Orange County and I don't feel like traveling at this time. Also, he's looking for something long tern, exclusive and with hopes of the arrangement evolving into something more. Eh. No thanks. I have a boyfriend.

I have no had any luck on SA. Only a few really cheap guys who are looking to spend $500 a pop. Lots of requests for test drives. I have a friend in Southern California who is  Sugar Baby and she says the men down there are much more generous.

Any tips for meet ups? I have a few first dates next week and want to know the protocol. Do I dress up, dress casually?

Any tips would be most appreciated.

Until next time,

Lilo

What a weekend!

Hello Dolls!

I had a wonderful weekend. Exchanged many texts and emails with Mr. CEO. He wants to take me wine tasting and cook me dinner. He said he he's at the point and wants to meet me. I told him I would love to and he said he would get back to me later next week about details!

I am super excited! I think I'll get the allowance I'm looking for (5k) and even ample gifts. =)

I'm also meets with another pot next week (just coffee) I'll call him Serious. He wants to make sure that I'm not a flake (he says he had many girls flake before) and wants to be sure that this is a LIFESTYLE and not a hobby. I told him if thats how he rolls he really needs an allowance to back that shit up. And he flat out asked what I was looking for. Since I don't dig him, I raised my price to 7k and he said that's agreeable. Lets see if he pulls through.

it's exhausting writing back and forth. I can't wait until I have a decent cash flow going so I can put some money aside for school next semester. I'm also in dire need of a new laptop.

Ladies, whats some of the first things you have bought?

Typically, do you get 'Thanks for meeting me cash' at first "dates" or how does this work?

I know many girls say to treat it like a typical date, no sex until ample time has gone by; same with kissing. What if your REALLY not attracted to him? Some of these guys are so gross looking, I keep upping my allowance amount and they claim it's not a big deal. I'm wondering what my thresh-hold is.

What's yours?

Off to bed, hope your weekend has been filled with lots and lots of sugar!

Kisses,

Lilo

A fantastic Saturday

Hello Dolls,


So I've still been weighing my options and and have more pots to talk about.

I want to talk about my date today with Regular Guy. We met at Starbucks, talked about nerdy things like trampoline dodgeball. Had a few laughs and parted ways. He really is someone I could grow to like if I was in the market for someone like him.

Anyways, after the date I went home and Boyfriend was pretty riled up. We ended up being intimate and had lunch. Sometimes, I can't get over how good looking he is!

Went suit shopping with Mr. Boss. He's the dad of the boys I nanny. While spending time with him I realized how good looking he is and if he was on the market for a sugar he is certainly someone I would pursue. He's very wealthy, has a sense of humor, helps me when I need it and is genuine in all that he does. Unfortunately he is dead in love with his wife.

Anyways, Mr. CEO emailed me today and wanted my number. We've been texting all day and says he feels that were a pretty good match and wants to meet when I feel ready. He tells me intimate details of his life and I do the same. He explained how his wife is a consumer and not a producer and lost her desire for intimacy. He told me that is why he is seeking me and really wants things to work out in the long run.

I've been talking other pots, none spark my interest but I keep talking to them just in case things don't work work with me and Mr. CEO.

Kisses,

Lilo

What's Up with all these Daddies??

Hello Dolls,

Just writing to update you on my chase as of now. I'm pretty frustrated. I haven't heard from Mr. CEO today, only once. Usually he writes multiple times.

I also met a pot on SD.com and he basically said he cannot offer an allowance because he isn't made of money. I laughed. Why are you on SD then initiating contact with someone who clearly writes she needs an allowance? Did he think I would over-look it because he was charming? Yuck, I hate situations like this.

I had another pot contact me from AshleyMadison. He's in real-estate and owns a few restaurants. Not sure about this one, only because I had my hopes up for getting to know Mr. CEO better. I thought him and I were really hitting it off. Oh well, maybe I'll hear back from him tomorrow.

On a lighter note, Boyfriend and I are in a bit of a funk, he works 70 hour a week to provide a lifestyle for me that he really isn't meeting. I'd rather him work less and spend more time with me then to essentially work for nothing. He does not know about my potential Sugar life and I have no intention on telling him. I only told my dear brother and he has agreed to not tell a soul.

Since Boyfriend and I are in a funk, I have agreed to a coffee date with someone I met online in hops of bringing a spring to my step. He's very cute, witty and is excited to meet me. He is around my age, actually a year older (25) and seem very down to earth. He's certainly not someone I would want to see long term, but someone casually and for laughs. Seriously ladies. He makes me laugh.

Also, Colorado CEO keeps emailing me. Ugh. When will he get the hint? I don't want anything licked, caressed are touched by anyone I don't know.

I hope I end up with a SD soon. The hunt is killing me.

Kisses,

Lilo